Life is so short. It's so unfair. So unfair. If you are arguing with a family member, or not talking to them for some unknown stupid assed reason. Build a bridge and get over it. I just met the only cousin I knew from my fathers side, the only relative outside my dad and my siblings, by freak accident (we worked together) and today I meet another cousin, her sister, who tells me my cousin is going to die. So many family members stop talking and I yearned to know who I was on my fathers side. I find someone whom I look like, and for over a year we have grown close and now this. She is the door to my fathers family. She was the one who helped me so much on the tree, on the Day side. I don't know what to say. I still have her last text to me saying "I love you, Cousin". I can't think. I am sorry.