We all have our own journey in life, our own mistakes, our our successes, our own memories that make us smile years from the days the memories were made. We have our own firsts. Just like I don't want anyone stepping in my world telling my how/where to set my moon and stars, I won't step into my children's world. We learn from our own dance of life.  It's not that I don't care, because, unless someone is getting abused, I really don't.