What I don't and what I do want

I don't want a man who talks sexy to his multiple female friends on the phone in one room and try to sex me in another minutes later. I don't want a man who preaches of respecting the black woman, but sneaks around not proud enough to say I'm good enough to bed but not good enough to show off to the world. I dont want a man who hasn't introduced me to his mother within the first month (the relationship has dead ended for good after 30 days in my book if mom is alive and I haven't met her). I don't want a man who make a woman want to want to look to see what another woman looks like on her Facebook profile. 

I want a king to touch me and show the world I am beautiful the way he found me. He isn't hiding me. He's trying to perfect himself, not him trying to mold me into who he used to have (or who he fantasizes of). It would be nice to find that strong black man, that king, who is so secure in himself that he promotes a strong self security in those around him.