9 years ago a brother told me that none of the men in the study group or any or any other study groups/mosques would every want to marry me. I should have believed him. He said it a little differently this time a few weeks ago, but the intent was still the same. This time I believe him. I know he meant to give me wisdom, to let me know so if I was serious about finding a mate, I would look elsewhere because I wouldn't find one there. I know he wasn't being mean. He just wanted me to go somewhere other there. I just haven't yet. Maybe I just have resigned to a life of being alone. Maybe I am ok with being with no one. Maybe he was right.